A man’s hands writing a card at a laid table.
You love her.That was never the question.
A fully arranged evening at home in Dallas, with dinner, flowers, and a massage you give her. $1,500 for the evening.
One night at home. You give her a massage, cue cards beside you, and when you are done, dinner is on the table.
We plan it on one call, set the room while she is out, and are gone before she is home. The next morning we take it all away.
We take five bookings a month, at $1,500 per evening. A $500 deposit holds your slot, refundable until you confirm your date and plan in writing.
Date subject to confirmation. Refund terms.
For a man in Dallas with her birthday or your anniversary in the next sixty days.
What is included
- The Planning Call.
- Twenty minutes with us about her. The date, the food, the card, the plan for the afternoon.
- The Setup.
- We set the room while she is out: candles, scent, music, the dinner table laid.
- The Massage Table, Oils and Linens.
- A professional massage table, essential oils, towels and fresh linens, brought in for the night and taken away with everything else.
- Dinner for Two, Delivered.
- Dinner for two, with the menu and any storage, reheating or serving instructions agreed before your date is confirmed.
- The Flowers and Your Card.
- A full bouquet, and a handwritten card in your words. We draft it with you; you write it.
- Your Cue Cards and Practice Video.
- Twelve cards, one move each, and five minutes to watch the night before.
- Conversation Cards.
- For when the massage is done and dinner is on the table.
- The Morning After, Handled.
- We come back and take everything away.
- Our Discretion Promise.
- Discreet arrival and collection, with access agreed in advance. We do not photograph your home or evening without your permission. Personal details are shared only where needed to arrange your night.
What it is not
Nobody else touches her. There is no therapist. Nothing arrives in a box for you to assemble. The night is yours; the hours around it are ours.
How the night works
The planning call.
We contact you within one day of your deposit to arrange a twenty-minute call. We ask about her, the date, the food and your home. Then we send the plan, access arrangements and total price for you to confirm in writing. Your deposit counts toward that total.
Two weeks out.
The balance is due and we order the food and the flowers. Your cue cards and a five-minute practice video arrive.
The afternoon.
We arrive in the agreed window while she is out. The table, oils, linens, candles, music and flowers are arranged. Dinner is prepared for serving according to the food storage and timing plan we agreed. We leave before she comes home.
The night.
This part is yours. She comes home to a room she does not recognise, and you are the reason. You hand her the card. You give her the massage, cue cards beside you. When you are done, dinner is on the table.
The morning after.
We come back at the time we agreed and take everything away. The house looks like it did yesterday.
The part that has to be yours
Everything on this page could be done by someone else, except one thing. The moment you are after, when she realises you did this, only exists if the hands are yours.
So we make sure you are not guessing. On the call, we walk through the massage step by step. Two weeks out, you get numbered cue cards and a five-minute video to watch the night before. On the night, the cards sit beside you. Twelve of them, one move each, in order. You do not have to remember anything. You just have to be there, with her, and nowhere else.
Three of the twelve.
Click a card to reveal it.
01 of 12. Begin. Check in first. Ask whether she'd like a massage and where she feels comfortable beginning. Agree on pressure and any areas to avoid. She can pause or stop at any time.
04 of 12. Release. Move in slow circles. Using your fingertips, make small, gentle circles across the shoulder muscles. Keep the pressure comfortable and stay away from the neck.
12 of 12. Finish. Let the moment settle. Gradually lighten your touch and rest your hands for a moment. Lift them away slowly. Ask whether she'd like to pause or finish.
From Irewole
I work more hours than I would choose, and I know exactly what a man like me does with money when he loves someone and has no time: spends it on her and calls it care. I do not want to be that man. I want to be the one who did it himself, with the room ready and the card in his handwriting. Intimacy is built by hand, in small deliberate acts nobody else could have done for you. Thoughtful Moments exists so that a man with no hours can still do the one thing that counts. We do everything else.
Irewole Akande, Dallas
Thoughtful Moments is a business by Unified Signature Language. Before your evening, we confirm who will arrive, when they will be there, and how access to your home will work.
The price
$1,500 for the evening.
One evening for two, with planning, room setup, dinner, flowers and next-day collection.
We take five a month so each evening gets our full attention. We confirm who will set up and collect everything before your date is agreed.
Holding a slot. $500 today. Fully refundable until you accept your date and plan in writing. The balance is due two weeks before the night, when we start ordering.
Our commitment. If the room, the food or the flowers materially differ from the agreed written plan and we cannot put it right, we refund the price of the night. Read the terms and refund policy.
Date subject to confirmation. Refund terms.
Questions men ask us
She will know you did not carry a table up the stairs. Everything she sees on the night is a choice you made on the call: the food, the flowers, the card in your handwriting, the massage from your hands. We handled the logistics. You handled her.
A professional massage table, oils and linens, an afternoon and a morning in your home, food from a kitchen we trust, flowers, and the hours of planning you do not have. The price is the night done properly, once.
We confirm the people attending, the arrival window and the access plan with you before the date is confirmed. Tell us about stairs, parking, pets and building permissions. We do not photograph your home or evening without your permission.
We plan that on the call. It is usually an afternoon: a salon booking, a friend, an errand you invent. You will have a plan and a fallback before we hang up.
Then this is not the right night for her, and we would rather tell you that on the call than take your money. Ask her what she loves before you hold a slot.
We agree the menu, dietary requirements and any allergen limitations before you confirm. We also agree storage, reheating and serving instructions for your meal, so it is ready safely when you want to eat. Tell us about allergies on the planning call.
We arrange evenings at Dallas addresses, subject to confirmation. Send your neighbourhood or ZIP through the enquiry form. We confirm coverage and any travel charges in your written total before you commit.
We recommend at least 14 days. For an earlier date, email hello@thoughtful-moments.com before paying a deposit. We will check what is possible and agree any shorter payment or preparation schedule in writing.
We check the room layout, table space, clear access and any stairs during planning. Setup happens in an agreed window while your partner is out, and collection happens in an agreed window the next day. We confirm the timings and equipment requirements before you accept the date.
The deposit is part of the total, not an extra fee. We confirm the final price, including any applicable taxes, travel and requested extras, in writing before you confirm. Nothing is added without your approval.
Before written date confirmation, your deposit is fully refundable. Afterwards, we retain only disclosed, nonrecoverable costs you already approved and refund the rest. We check availability for date changes. If we cancel or cannot serve your date or address, you receive a full refund. The terms explain the details.
Start with a conversation
Let’s find her evening.
Send a date and your neighbourhood. We will check what is possible and reply within one day. No payment needed.
The personal details come later, on a twenty-minute planning call.
hello@thoughtful-moments.com